We live in a culture that glorifies hustle. We measure our worth in checkmarks, and productivity gets treated like a badge of honor—even if we’re running on fumes. So yes, the idea of resting can feel a little counterintuitive.

But here’s what I’ve learned:

I don’t get things done in spite of resting—I get things done because I rest.

Valentine’s Day is here, and while I love a good excuse to eat fancy chocolate and romanticize life, let’s be real—love isn’t just about overpriced bouquets and candlelit dinners. And it’s definitely not reserved for one day a year. Love is the quiet, everyday moments, the small acts of kindness, the way we show up for ourselves and for others, even when nobody’s watching.